How many believe that life should be like the songs that are being sung today?

How many people believe that a person should be likes the songs sung today, songs like hero by enrique, or the song what hurts the most by rascal flatts. or the song by nickle back far away. or song my love by justin timberlake. pardon me if i mis spell a singers name. or tittle the song wrong. How many people believe that love life should be like wha tyou hear in the song or see in a movie. are there poeple out there that are loving that what we hear and see? Or is it fantsy? If love exsist in such a way like these songs then i am missing out big time. Will i just want to know who all believes this way and who does not believe this way.